He insists we’re leaving California, and I’m not happy

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 42 years would move to the Northwest. We originally fell in love with it and lived there for four years. I found work, made friends and enjoyed myself incredibly much.

Jeanne Phillips

My husband kept traveling back to Southern California to work and decided he would no longer live in the North. I protested, but he would not hear it, so we moved down again.

Now, after the pandemic year and having lived in our home less than two years, he wants to move back to the Northwest because “it’s too hot, too crowded, etc. here.”

I gave him my opinion and a huge fight ensued. I would never move back south, but he insisted warlike. I’m not sure what to think anymore. Some suggestions?



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