When considering your first night after an arranged marriage, some people are nervous while others experience excitement. Then there are those who feel anxious and even a fear of possibly embarrassing themselves towards their partner. But in the hopes of helping you get the most out of your wedding night, we’ll give you a few ways you can mentally prepare for this, especially if you happen to be in bed with a stranger.
- Choose comfort over flimsy lingerie
Whatever you see in the cinema, it is recommended that you keep your wedding night as comfortable as possible for you. So you might want to skip the thin lingerie until you are more comfortable undressing in front of your spouse. Choose cozy pajamas or something else that you feel comfortable in when you go to bed.
- Focus on conversation instead of performance
It’s drilled into all of us to focus on performance and delight your partner this evening. However, a good way to start is to make your partner feel comfortable sleeping next to you, as this may be your first time spending the night together. So open up to your husband or wife and have a heartfelt conversation and the love comes naturally.
- Consider your amorous activities if you live in a joint family
It can be easy to get carried away with the flow of things on your first night. But with thin bedroom walls between you and your new family, the last thing you want to do is pollute their sleep with your moans. So reconsider being noisy while intimate on your wedding night if you are sharing a home with several other seniors and children. However, if you are in a hotel or somewhere other than your home, you may like to be as noisy as you prefer.
Whether you happen to be the bride or groom entering your new life after an arranged marriage, there are definitely a million thoughts running through your mind. So use these tips to calm your mind and start your married life on a positive note.
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