My fiance tells me his exes are still waiting

DEAR ABBY: My fiancé, “Peter,” has a number of female friends I’m not comfortable with, primarily because they are women he was interested in before we started dating.

Jeanne Phillips

He says he has told them that he is taken now and that they can be no more than friends, but I do not think they got the message.

He told me recently that one of them told him that a guy had proposed to her, but she delays in accepting if Peter becomes unemployed. This is the second time something like this has happened.

I think it’s because of the way he treats these girls. I mean, if he really made it clear in words and actions that he is not interested in them romantically, they would not base their life decisions on the hope that they still have a chance with him.


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